We are the parents of two beautiful children. Our names are Neil and Miranda. Hailey is 5 and Carter is nearly 3. We are currently in a fight to save their lives. On Tuesday, January 29th, they were both given a death sentence. We were devastated to learn that they have a fatal degenerative brain disease called Late Infantile Batten Disease with a life expectancy of 8-12 years. This disease takes no mercy on it’s young victims. They will both become very sick, suffering from seizures, loss of muscle control, be completely blind, demented, and bed-ridden until the disease takes their lives, far too soon. Those with the disease are not able to produce the enzyme needed to clear toxins from the brain, so they build up causing severe damage.
Battens disease is an inherited genetic disorder. Two parents must have the same defective gene to cause the disease. Meaning they cannot get the disease, but are carriers. We passed it down to our children and should we ever decide to have more, they would face a 1 in 4 chance of inheriting the disease also. A chance we are not willing to take. Nothing is more difficult than watching your children suffer so much.The chances of this happening are 2-4 in 100,000. There are only 200-300 people living with the disease in the U.S., mostly children. It is extremely rare. There is currently no treatment and no cure.
Our daughter, Hailey, has suffered so much and been robbed of so much due to this disease. She was a typical child until the disease started showing it’s effects at the age of 2 1/2. Over time she has endured thousands of seizures, lost the ability to walk and talk and requires a feeding tube to eat. She went from an energetic, affectionate, smart little girl that loved books, dolls, playing with friends and helping us, to a little girl that can barely even sit up, crawl or eat unassisted. She needs constant care now. Please take the time to learn more about her under “Hailey’s Full Story.”
We were crushed to learn that our son, Carter, will suffer the same fate. We never would have dreamed anything like this would happen to him too. He has always been the one to keep us going. We don’t know what we would have done without him. He is in the beginning stages of the disease and is still able to walk and talk, though he is delayed. He has recently started having seizures as well as other symptoms of the disease, like behavior problems. You can also see the rest of his story under “Carter’s Full Story.”
We cannot express to you in words just how truly heart-broken we are. We feel as though all of our dreams have been taken from us. It is unbearable knowing that your children will suffer so much and die. The only thing getting us through this, is knowing we are doing everything in our power to help them.
Upon learning of their diagnosis, we immediately began researching. Only to find out there are only two clinical studies in the U.S. to help treat Battens. They have recently ended and will not start back up for several months to a year. They have waiting lists and only take a limited number of children. We were informed that they will most likely not be able to treat Hailey anyway, as she is too far into the disease. We have never felt so helpless in our lives.
We have spoken with dozens of other affected parents from around the world, doctors from all over the country and support group leaders and have learned of another option. It is Stem Cell implants in China. While China is certainly not our first choice, it is our only choice for now. We will go anywhere and do anything to give our children a chance at life. Stem cells are not a cure for Battens, but can stop the progression of the disease and repair some damage. Researchers in the U.S. are close to a cure, but it is still years out. The idea is to keep them here long enough to see that cure. The children that have gone there, after being rejected from trials here in the U.S., have had excellent results. You can read some of there stories and learn more about stem cells in China in the “links” section. We have spoken with the doctors there and they have agreed to treat Hailey at a hospital in Beijing. Unfortunately, that hospital will not be able to treat Carter, as he is too young. He was however, accepted to another hospital in Hangzhou, China for the same treatment.
The treatment in China will require three separate trips for two months each. Hailey’s treatments will be $50,000 each and Carter’s will be $25,000 each. Not everyone has that kind of money laying around. We certainly don’t and we are asking for help. This may seem a bit overwhelming, but we have no other choice… we have to save Hailey and Carter. We figure if we can get our message sent to enough people, it would not be that hard to raise the money. We have to move quickly though, as time is not on our side. We are losing our children to this disease right before our very eyes. Please find it in your heart to help us give our babies a fighting chance at life. I pray that no other parent reading this will ever have to endure the true pain and heart-ache of watching your child suffer through such a terrible disease, or worse… losing that child. As you all know, you can never take your childrens’ health for granted. Through all of this, we have learned that health is the most important aspect of life and you are truly blessed if you are fortunate enough to have the health of your family. We pray everyday that God delivers us our two miracles… the health and happiness of our children.
To make a donation, simply go to the “How Can I Help” section or the “Donate now via PayPal” section. There you will also find a link to the Batten Support and Research Association. You can make a donation there as well, to help researchers find a cure for everyone affected by Battens disease. The amount of support that we have already received has been overwhelming. We are truly grateful. Thank you so very much.
Neil and Miranda Goranflo
(Please see our current updates to see how Hailey and Carter are doing now)
Miranda and Neil- I am so sorry to hear of the trying times you are dealing with. Your children are precious and you are right they deserve a chance at life. I have faith that you will raise the money you need. God will continue to give you the strength that you need to make it through this storm. Please continue to love and support one another because you will need each other to keep from going insane. There are no words in my vocabulary that will make you feel better so I won’t try but know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I plan to ask my church to donate money and if there is anything else I can do please let me know. (I really mean that) I cannot imagine going through what you are going through but you never know what strange obstacles life will throw your way. Be strong and don’t give up trying to help your angels!
Miranda, Neil, Hailey, and Carter
Hey its Diana, I just want you to know taht we are praying for you and the kids. I know firsthand that you all are wonderful people and extremely good parents. I just want you to know that I think about you all on a daily basis. I hope you get the help you need for Hailey and Carter’s trip to China. Please know that you are truly one of my best friends. While dealing with your own struggles you took the time to help me with Jordan, and you always ask how he is doing no matter how much you have on your mind. We will continue to pray for all of you.
Love
Diana, Don, and Jordan
Miranda and Neil,
Hi my name is Andrew Britain, I am a student of Brandon Thomas. He recently talked to me and explained the situayion. I am truly sorry about what is happening to Hailey and Carter, and am praying for you. My band, Vacant will be opening up for Brandon at the Houston benefit. I can’t wait to help you guys out, and i honestly believe that things will get better. Wwill help in whatever way possible, and you will remain in my prayers. I look forward to helping you at the benefit.
-Andrew Britain
Miranda and Neil,
I know we only worked together for a short time Miranda, but I saw you on the news tonight; You have amazing strength. I am so sorry to hear of your children’s illnesses. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Hollis Edwards
hey guys. we love you and we are so proud of your determination and all you have accomplished to get the word out. We will help with all along the way! This is so gonna happen. What’s the weather like in China in the summer?! See you all soon
Miranda and Neil,
I was Hailey’s Sunday School teacher at OCC last year until I had my baby. I wanted to let you know that your family remains in my prayers. Hailey is such a wonderful little girl, and as a mother my heart aches for you both. I am working on getting the word out, and I hope to have a few little suprises for your family in the future.
God Bless
Michelle Warner
Miranda and Neil,
I came across your story and I just wanted you to know that your children will be in my prayers. My daughter (age 3) had cancer as an infant and now she is a survivor. I truly believe in the power of prayer. Keep the faith and may God bless you,
Jeanne Boguszewski
Miranda, Neil, Hailey and Carter
I just wanted to let you know “GOD” loves you and he will always be with you. He will hold you in his big strong hands
trust in him and he will show you the way. I pray for you all some mighty strong prayers. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND I WISH I COULD GIVE YOU ALL THE MONEY YOU NEED BUT I KNOW DEEP IN MY HEART GOD WILL COME THRU FOR YOUR FAMILY. He does some wonderful things I know because he has been there for me when I had cancer and when my husband passed away. Who ever reads this please pray for this family.I know the more prayers the bigger the miracles will be. THANK YOU GOD I KNOW YOU WILL HEAR ALL OF THESE PRAYERS. amen
GOD WILL BE WITH YOU ALL.
Andrea
Hi Miranda, we met today at the Kentuckiana Children’s Center. I will be sending an email about your situation and about the fundraiser on the 24th to most of my email list. I am honored to have met you and I am so sorry that your kids are so sick. They are darling, and I really feel for you. I will do what I can to help.
Jenny
Hi Miranda and Neil
I have never met you but I have read about your ordeal with the airlines. My heart breaks for your family. I am orginally from Newfoundland, which is a hot spot for this disease. My brother was affected by a genetic disease that our family carries. I know the struggle of trying to understand what is happening while still searching for some kind of hope.
I will pray that your family gets the miracle that these beautiful children deserve. Keep strong.
Tammy
My heart aches for you and your family. I am a mother of two. Both my kids a son and a daughter are in there twenties now. I went through a battle of my own to save my son’s life that lasted years. He almost died at the age of 12. We fought our medical system and he received treatment in England through donations towards a trust fund for him that local realtors began in 1997. His story was in the local paper ..the Vancouver Province and Reader’s Digest magazine. I can only know too well the feelings you must be experiencing. We never gave up. It has been over 10 years now…that period of my life still haunts me. I still have dreams.. He wasn’t supposed to make it..but is alive today. Although there are still some problems. His life was saved. Unfortunately the stress of our ordeal cost us our marriage after 27 years. But my baby ..is alive and for that I am so very thankful. We never gave up. I wish you the best.
God Bless
Marie Reynen
HEY MIRANDA AND NEIL,
I HAVE TWO BEAUITIFUL BOYS. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH. AS MUCH MONEY AND TRANSPORATION OPTIONS WE HAVE IN AMERICA SOMEONE SHOULD BE ABLE TO HELP. I AM FURIOUS THAT YOU WERE TREATED THAT WAY. PRAY AND GOD WILL DELIVIARY. YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYS, ALWAYS.
IN CHRIST I BELIEVE,
SHANNA PEACOCK
So sorry to hear of your ordeal with the airlines. But am equally overjoyed at how God has brought this to national
attention! My prayer is that the hearts of many will be opened and you will have all treatments paid for soon.
But…not only paid for….that Hailey and Carter will be healed and touched by the hand of God. My heart goes out to you as parents….we have children and I have a grandson with a genitic disorder…whom we are praying for….(he is 7 years old)…praying that he will talk this year….it is so hard to see children suffer….but…just know that Jesus knows their pain…sees your tears….knows your heart is breaking….He’s there….He cares….and He will be glorified! I don’t know you…but I love you and your family…..you will be in my prayers!!!!
Perk Lapp
Neil and Miranda, our thoughts and prayers are with you. My Dad alerted me to your story. My family is in a similar situation. We are having difficulties with medical bills and are trying to raise money for our daughter Zoey’s stell cell infusion with her cord blood that we banked at birth. We thank God that she was found a candidate. It is a miracle there are enough cells for one infusion. We recently celebrated Zoey’s third birthday. She suffered from infantile spasms at 5 months and was diagnosed with epilepsy at 7 months. Zoey does not eat by mouth either. She had a g-tube inserted in her belly at 10 months of age and was recently diagnosed with a severe case of Cerebral Palsy which affects all four limbs. Zoey is at high risk for pnemonia, has difficulties breathing, turns blue with seizures and requires nightly monitoring by pulsox and oxygen. Zoey does not sit up, crawl, walk or talk. Thankfully she is able to let us know when she is uncomfortable and happy by crying or cooing. We have two developmentally normal children as well so your story is truly heart felt. I will continue reading your site and see if the office I work for could help contribute through our Charity Foundation. Unfortunately Zoey was not eligible for their consideration for several reasons. I wish there was something more I could do to help. I will check back and pray for your family always. God Bless and be well, Melanie Komninos, N.J.
I came across your story and had to post a comment. I was so overwhelmed by the whole thing. My heart is just breaking for you as a parent. I just made a very small donation to you. I wish that I could send more. It’s funny, just this morning I was saying how broke I am and how I am sick of living paycheck to paycheck and blah blah blah, but then I read something like this and it puts everything into persepctive. I’ll gladly give my last few dollars.
I hope that people continue to give. I will be blogging about your family on my own blog and hopefully it will inspire someone to help out as well.
All the best.
I was reffered here from the Jon and Kate plus 8 blog and read this story this really touched me and I would like to know where to send money to donate to you guys
your in my prayers and I hope the best for Hailey and Carter
I have read your story and am praying for your family. I worked for a respite care agency with two young men (brothers) with this very same disease. Although I was never able to work with one of them (he passed away at age 27 when I had been hired), I did work closely with his brother and their family. It is a scary disease, but I pray you will have the strength and faith to endure. God bless.
Dear Neil & Miranda: I share your pain as I have a 24 year old daughter, Jennifer, with Cerebral Palsy and the challenge over the years has caused me do look in many corners to help her. I am Jeff Schofield, a chiropractor by background, speak Mandarin, and saw you are wanting to take Hailey & Carter to China for Stem Cell Treatments. In the meantime, a much more cost effective way of getting Adult Stem Cells to heal them is a consumable product called Stem Enhance from Stem Tech Health Sciences. Also Stemflo http://www.stemflo.com is a companion to Stem Enhance. I personally take both as does Jennifer. This product is simply amazing. Please email me at jschofield4u@yahoo.com and I will send you some attachments to further help you understand the simple answer God created in Klamath Falls Lake in Oregon. Kind regards, Jeff Schofield DC PS it will cost about 90$ each a month to Try Stem Enhance and Stemflo.
Dear Neil and Miranda,
I came across your story on the Jon and Kate Plus 8 website. I am writing this with tears running down my face. I wish your children all the best and will continue to come back here to read the updates. I will certainly pass this web address on. A HUGE thank you to Jon and Kate for posting your story on their website. I hope that your story will make its way around the world and that you will get the support needed for your children to have their treatments.
God Bless,
Aimee
Dear Goranflo Family,
My prayers are with you, I have two daughters almost 3 and 9 months and I just can only imagine the heartache you are going through. You are wonderful and devoted parents and I am proud that you are standing up for your children and seeking medical attention wherever it will take you.
I am so happy to hear of the progress Hailey is going through after your trip to China! How incredible it is. Please keep us updated.
I read about your story on the Jon and Kate website, too. I am so glad they posted it on there, since I am from Texas and had not heard of your plight. I am going to post this on my Mommy Play group website, as well, in hopes that some more families will be able to help you.
God Bless you all!
Christina
Neil and Miranda,
I just want you to know that you are lifted up in prayers constantly. I understand everything has gotten better since you have posted this but i want you to know God is with you and wants the best for you. Our God is such a faithful and loving and caring God. He HATES to see you in pain. Because jesus was in so much pain but he did it for YOU and for precious Hailey and Carter. Trust that He is so caring that he wants you to live in joy and have faith that these beautiful children will live longer than any doctor could imagine them living. Please just have faith and tell satan NO! he WILL NOT tear you down. I am praying for you always and i really mean that. God will bless you for being faithful to His calling on your life and praising Him in this storm! May God bless you in a powerful way.
Neil and Miranda,
I am so sorry to hear about your children. I have a friend who lost her daughter to the same disease. It is truly a cruel disease, Kattie lived to be 14 but was unable to do anything for herself and had a feeding tube in at about 4 years old. We live in Canada so it is really unheard of here and thank goodness for the internet to help everyone understand what was happening and what would happen. Kattie was a beautiful girl and touch a lot of lives. Through it all her mum drew her strength from the Lord. They have a son as well and he is fine, carries no genes praise the lord for that. I have never heard of stem cell treatment for Battens but Kattie’s was just long enough ago that stem cell was pretty new. I don’t know if you have heard of Manatech products but we use them as well for Kattie and they seemed to help. They definitely didn’t hurt. Just know that you are in my prayers and I hope that a cure comes in time for your kids.
I read your story from a post on the Jon and Kate plus 8 website. I must say that I am heartbroken to hear about your precious children. I must say that a child has done nothing to deserve what they are put through sometimes. I have faith that everything will work out, the power of prayer is awesome. My son was diagnosed with a rare type of cancer when he has just 9 weeks old. They were able to remove his entire tumor and save his bladder and prostate when they were telling us there was a 90% chance they were going to have to remove both to get the entire tumor out. I will keep you in my thoughts, and I know your children will open others eyes on the how strong children are and how they do not deserve what they go through.
With lots of love,
Susan
Hello there.
I have just learned of your story tonight while I was on the Jon and Kate plus 8 website.
This is a very moving story and I am praying for you and your family.
Also I sent an e-mail to Ellen Degeneres’ website tonight. I let her know about your story and gave her the site address. I know its a long shot but it’s worth a try!
I will continue to spread the word and do all that I can.
God bless you!!
Melanie
-Ontario, Canada
Hi I read your story and I feel broken hearted to see Hailey and Carter going through this. I’m 14 years old and when I was a baby I was really sick. My mom would have to take to Jackson Memorial Hospital (Miami,Fl) every time I got sick. I had to medication everyday and they put me on Medicaid. My mother prayed to God for a miracle that I’ll be well and her prayer made me still alive today. I want to say that I’m praying for Hailey and Carter to be well; I’m also praying for the whole family. God bless you all
and I will definitely keeping in my prayers.
Love,
Sabrina
Pompano Beach, Fl
Hi I read your story and leaves me broken hearted to see Hailey and Carter going through this. I’m 14 years old and when I was a baby, I was really sick and my mother had to take to the hospital every time. Doctors prescribed me medication and later on put me on medicaid. My mom turned to God so I can be well and live a normal life. It wa my mother’s prayer that kept me well today and I thank God for that. I will keep Hailey, Carter, and the rest of the family in my prayers.
Love,
Sabrina
Pompano Beach, FL
I am so very sorry to hear about your kids. I too found this website from Jon and Kate’s website. I am touched by what your kids are going through. I hope soon the doctors find a cure. Your family is in my prayers.
Much Love,
Kat <3